Paul Wilcox

All of my work involves Somatic Mindfulness. With Somatic work, we often forget that the body is the faculty whereby all of our consciousness is born. Without our senses we would not be able to experience our lives. When we live in our heads we lose the combined force of an aligned mind-body system. Body wisdom, awareness, critical thinking, and investigation allow us to live in the present, and feel comfortable, embodied, and alive.

The existential facet of my work focuses on choice. Oftentimes in life, we forget that we have so many choices and possibilities available to us, even choices that seem challenging but that may help us flex new muscles for psychological growth. Realizing that you have both choice and agency brings real empowerment to your life.

I work as a psychodynamic psychotherapist utilizing somatic, existential, and psychodynamic practices to help you reflect and explore. The work we do revolves around what is alive in you at the moment, as well as managing the energy in the room and what feels most pervasive to you.

Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
— Viktor Frankl

Specialties

  • Somatic therapy/EMDR

  • LGBTQ

  • Trauma

  • Sex and sex-positive therapy

  • Marginalized communities

  • Couples counseling

  • Existential therapy

  • Depth psychology

Exploration_Soma Mind Body Healing

Exploration

Those who have a why to live can bear almost any how.
— Friedrich Nietzsche
Awareness_Soma Mind Body Healing

Awareness

There is no such thing as a disembodied mind.
— Antonio Damasio
Grounding_Soma Mind Body Healing

Grounding

Evermore people today have the means to live, but no meaning to live for.
— Viktor Frankl